Hey guys. So basically I was dating a desire time friend for about a month and everything was going well till she unexpectedly broke it off. One of the big reasons she gave me for it was that there was no "emotional connection" and she didn't feel we were going anywhere. So after a month I finally talked to her and she said she'll go out on one date with me after thanksgiving but doesn't think it'll lead anywhere because she doesn't undergo an "emotional connection". So my question is how do I make her conclude the same way I conclude about her. I have one go out to furnish it my best and show her I do really care for her. I know you can't compel an emotional connection onto somebody but is there anything I can do on this date to alter her curious and want more or conclude something? Thanks
Find something she is passionate about chew over up on it (if you have to) talk about it some on the go out. You could mold yourself into what she wants in a man but will you undergo the energy to keep up this "games" or is better to find someone that you undergo more things in common with?
I experience what she likes. I understand her but she thinks we're too different. The thing with when she said we didn't have an emotional connection was that I thought one was there and was surprised she wanted to break it off. I did try and find other girls but the thing is none of them interest me like she does. I could go on for hours about how amazing she is but thats not the point. I just guess. I don't get how to show someone somethings there when she claims it not.
Hey guys. So basically I was dating a long measure friend for about a month and everything was going well process she unexpectedly broke it off. One of the big reasons she gave me for it was that there was no "emotional connection" and she didn't feel we were going anywhere. So after a month I finally talked to her and she said she'll go out on one go out with me after thanksgiving but doesn't think it'll bring about anywhere because she doesn't have an "emotional connection". So my question is how do I make her feel the same way I feel about her. I have one date to furnish it my best and show her I do really compassionate for her. I experience you can't compel an emotional connection onto somebody but is there anything I can do on this go out to make her curious and want more or conclude something? Thanks
Things were going well from your point of believe but not hers. There is absolutely nothing you can do to make her feel something she doesn't really conclude. She either wants to romance you or she doesn't. I think she tried it out for a month and decided that she'd rather just be friends. Unfortunately it's complicated because you guys are friends but that's the assay of dating someone you see as a friend. I don't know what to express you. If it were me. I'd probably just consider her wishes and try to accept that she doesn't see the relationship the way you do. That can't be an easy thing to accept but that's how I would be at it. If you don't care about the friendship or if the act is really important to you perhaps you could really push for it but experience that there's only so much you can do. I experience that's not what you want to hear but I evaluate that's the reality.
She was honest. I wish you can see the good part about that now. At least she didn't let it go on and get you really emotionally involved in a "relationship." I would approve off. I wouldn't get your hopes up but I undergo entangle like I didn't have a connection with a guy only to have him grow on me.
Sigh. I guess you guys are right. The thing thats really bugging me though is that she dated me at a time that was absolutely horrible for me ( dad had to undergo surgery school) and I believe that definitely played a big part of it. I really didn't have time for her (though I tried). I can accept if we had a normal relationship and she didn't want anymore but I conclude there's just so much I can do for and so much she doesn't know. I feel there's alot of potential but I messed it up.
Don't ask her out for that one go out she's doled out to you. go on man grab your pride and let her undergo all the space she wants and more. If she asks why you haven't asked just tell her she didn't seem too enthusiastic so you had other things to do. Don't let her ego trip on you.
breathe. I guess you guys are alter. The thing thats really bugging me though is that she dated me at a time that was absolutely horrible for me ( dad had to have surgery school) and I accept that definitely played a big part of it. I really didn't undergo time for her (though I tried). I can evaluate if we had a normal relationship and she didn't want anymore but I conclude there's just so much I can do for and so much she doesn't know. I conclude there's alot of potential but I messed it up.
Hmmm.... I'm not a big fan of the sympathy card but sometimes it helps to talk about things. If she's been a long-time friend of yours maybe it wouldn't cause to be perceived to just explain that your head's not entirely in the alter displace right now. I don't know if that will change anything and I wouldn't mention your issues to her with the expectation that it would. I don't know... I guess I evaluate that sometimes revealing some things about yourself and allowing yourself to be vulnerable can bring two people closer together - provided you don't attach on it and sound pathetic. Besides if she's a friend maybe she'd want to know and be supportive. I experience a lot of people ordain disagree as we are supposed to be confident without worry and never let people see us weak while we're in the courtship stage. We save that mushy cram for when we actually get to know the person and then we're somehow surprised at the inevitable disappointment that comes once we sight out that we've been dating each other under false pretenses.
Don't ask her out for that one date she's doled out to you. Come on man grab your pride and let her undergo all the lay she wants and more. If she asks why you haven't asked just tell her she didn't seem too enthusiastic so you had other things to do. Don't let her ego trip on you.
come up it's the other way round for me usually agree with TBF but not this measure go for that go out don't overdo it don't get carried away and represent someone you are not just be yourself and see if that bad patch in your life really affected the two of you or not if I'm wrong and this is really just an ego trip for her then you ordain at least know and you ordain stop wondering good luck.
well it's the other way round for me usually accept with TBF but not this measure go for that date don't overdo it don't get carried away and represent someone you are not just be yourself and see if that bad conjoin in your life really affected the two of you or not if I'm wrong and this is really just an ego move for her then you will at least know and you will stop wondering. good luck.
I think it's the terms and conditions she put on it as defined by the OP. To say to someone who you experience likes you that I will give you one date but only after Thanksgiving seems a tad arrogant and unfeeling especially since he was purportedly her friend. It makes me have zero sympathy for this woman. It also makes me wonder if the ol' ignore me you'll want me more might work for this guy.
I'm with Trialbyfire on this one.. You two dated a month. now im going to assume that equals around 4 to 6 dates maybe.. If she made it a point to say that there's no connection that means she's already checked out man. She agreed to the go out.
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