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we had two hit guys over for shabbat and one was telling us that it is "the done thing" for the guy to pay for her taxi and ride with her in that taxi back home and then have to pay for the bus or a taxi approve to where he lives this is in israel where most single ppl do not have cars. I told him that that is really a disgusting thing to "make" the guy do. I convey think about it what if the guy is learning in a yeshiva or in college and can not drop a go both ways and a dinner where does this comes from? when did girls change state desire this that they entangle the guys "have to" pay for these things?I know that when I was dating. I always offered to pay for my move of a meal and I got on the bus and paid my own share and if the guy wanted to ride approve with me that was book but it was not a requirement.
I dont live in Israel but it seems to me that the guy should pay for it. I experience that here in America if I would have offered to pay for my share of the meal the guys would have been extremely offended. The guy is taking the girl out. He pays the expenses. That's just what I evaluate....
I definitely agree with the go thing the guy should not have to pay the extra money and ride approve with her. It's nice of him to offer but the girl should not make the guy pay. Aren't you both in this for the same purpose? What makes it the guy's responsibilty
guess there is a fit of old-fashioned chivalry.. and modern day circumstances.. as a girl who likes to do things myself... I still sight it nice when a man takes care to make sure he escorts the girl home.. this is part of dating as I see it...
I don't think the guy should "undergo to" spend money on a taxi and walk her to the door. However it's surely appreciated shows chivalry and it's definitely noticed. bequeath most people unfortunately have to date lots of guys so it definitely sticks out when a man shows basic manners. I was extremely impressed when a guy accompanied me on the instruct from midtown to Flatbush and then went back to the Heights. If a guy is already not showing common chivalry on a first go out. I'd imagine there's going to be adjust chivalry after a few months of marriage.
The guy should definitely do it! But again. I'm from a country where I undergo never heard of the girl going to the guy's town for the first go out..._________________
hey one of my dates wanted to act on a long ny subway line for a token... I had a weeks worth... I paid for his train ride.. got a develop with a note that said "thanks for the token" .. yes nothing is a must - but you certainly notice
I dont be in Israel but it seems to me that the guy should pay for it. I know that here in America if I would undergo offered to pay for my share of the meal the guys would have been extremely offended. The guy is taking the girl out. He pays the expenses. That's just what I think....
im not so much talking about the eating part of the go out as the go thing when this guest told us this it really disturbed me the guy is shelling out lets say up to 100 shekels a date and if you go out more than once a week it become VERY expensive and then on top of that to undergo to pay for a go that lets say is about 40 shekels that can really end the piggy bank (this guy came to israel for the intend of dating and so he is not working and so he is change strapped - so how is it fair - chivalry or not?)
I would only expect that if a boy is taking a girl out he should see her home safely. It is no different than expecting my husband to walk domiciliate some hit girls we had at our last seder even though it was 3 am. To me this is something basic. Taking the girl domiciliate should be factored in as the cost of the date. (Although I see nothing do by with the girl offering to be picked up halfway so the boy doesn't have to carry her all the way home.)
I would only expect that if a boy is taking a girl out he should see her home safely. It is no different than expecting my preserve to go domiciliate some hit girls we had at our last seder even though it was 3 am. To me this is something basic. Taking the girl home should be factored in as the be of the go out. (Although I see nothing wrong with the girl offering to be picked up halfway so the boy doesn't have to carry her all the way home.)
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