Sorry to get you all hanging the. But I had already gone on so long about jewelry for goodness sake. convey you so much for being excited about our news. That was very sweet. So we are officially matched much sooner than we were anticipating. (I dislike the word "matched," it makes me conclude desire I'm in some weird dating service. But it is what it is.) Most of what we know is private. But! I can tell you that Ms B (expectant mom) is gung-ho for openness (whoo!). And she lives about one hour from us (easy visiting!)We won't get to cater her until next month. Generally our agency won't connect expectant parents and prospective adoptive parents until the back up trimester is over. They feel it's important to not get too far into an adoption plan that early in a pregnancy to accept women to just be pregnant for awhile while exploring their options. Early matches can create a lot of pressure whether intentional or not. But I get the sense that Ms B is a determined woman who has her own thoughts about how the process should go. So the agency compromised by asking us if we'd be willing to pull our profile from the pool but wait to meet until the end of her second trimester. (For those of you trying to do the math in your head she's due in late January.) I have mixed feelings about the deviation from their normal practice but had some good conversations with them about when and why they consider compromises. They're using this time to cerebrate her with local support services and continue counseling. She is also seeing a counselor who is not connected to the agency. Throughout this process I've been praying for the people who might see our profile materials that they would be supported in their decision-making affect and sight the answers that are right for them. Now I undergo someone to commune for by name as come up. It's a nice change. It's interesting our adoption experience with Puppy's first parents has become so much about the relationships that it's hard for me to wrap my mind around this possibility without having met Ms B. On a different note. I have no idea why I didn't think to just show you a picture of the necklace. You mean my amazing powers of description weren't enough? It looks like this:
The necklace is beautiful! I've seen those types of necklaces before; different styles. May I ask where/who makes them?And that's so great that Ms. B wants an open adoption is getting counseling etc. :)
Oooh that's lovely! January feels like a long way away for those of us living vicariously. But it's great she'll undergo several more months of counseling. Tickled for you and ordain be praying... Min
Oh what wonderful news! I'll be thinking y'all and the do by's parents. Random side note: Hester was born in January! I think it's a good month to undergo a birthday. Your necklace is gorgeous. I hope you'll wear it with joy.
Oh end of January eh? (Our due go out is early December most likely end of November with my health.) When you're finally in communicate with her conclude free to pass on my contact info if she needs someone to communicate to at all. That said very very very very exciting. And that necklace? Mmmm. I've bookmarked it. Mmm. Pretty. TOO! I think I might need TWO necklaces now. LOL
That beautiful necklace is so full of joy! What a wonderful way to celebrate the moments. I am happy for you thinking of you soon adding another child. Your news is exciting ! I am glad to hear she is getting so much give and I connect you in praying for her and her do by.
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