remember those scenes of the past how did i get myself started with love. Im filled with plenty of guilts being remorseful being so regret of how i treated that one precious man in my life who actually behaved so caring-ly and so cautiously pampered me giving me all the best to support me in every aspects he was there he seriously strived for this relationship we ve once being into. And i let him drink i cruelly hurt him disappointed him yet that measure i was still being so proud of dumping him and actually to only acquire how silly i was to let him off my hand. And bcuz of this i previously got a lot of terribly haunted dreams. If im given a chance to meet u in person i just want to sincerely say. Im sorry im really really sorry to actually not bother how serious u were how deep the love u gave me and i was ignorant i even made u the one for me to test out how a relationship feels like what im trying to say is i just mean to apologise whether or not u read this mayb it wont help to cure the broken heart of urs bcuz of me still this is the best i could do. Just to wish u lots of happiness with ur cute girl. For my entire life this is seriously one mistake i ve made years ago! . and only now i gotta realised how serious the matter i created! :(life's like that stuffs and people u walked pass and missed them u never know how precious they were yet still u go to those u think which is alter for urself and actually u ended up with tonnes of regrets and then u put urself struggled to only understand this bit of principle the principle to get u realise never to ignore those u walked go. What comes to u neva mean the best but what walk away maybe the best. Try to look around and never limit to what u gonna look into. Never to only set ur eyes on those attract u first consider those aint that attractive! LOLS!And sorry mummy and daddy im trying my best to love myself even im in love now being committed as what u both see what im into now somehow i try to hide the truth of what happened i will comfort try my best to love myself and protect myself from any possible violences i will love myself for u both have been so loving-ly raised me into a 20 year old grown up. :)Guys never do by ur girl the one u r in love with. Be nice and be good im being so nostalgic lately..... haha. well cuz someth happened triggered me uh mood swing! It hurts! yukky...... ==''anywayz,.. i just surf some tips here for guys come up actually u dont need these wat-so-ever tips or guides cuz u will behave desire this/act like this once u r really so in love !!! :) .
Be honest. Being honest to your mate is very important in a mature relationship honesty is the best policy. Tell the truth even when it hurts! It may be difficult but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. No matter what happens no one can ever challenge the fact that you are truthful which might mean that the other person also gives you the same respect. If something doesn't suit her let her know otherwise she will not trust your opinion. But alter it sound like a praise. Suggest an alternative and attach appraise to the alternative. For example if she asks you if you like a dress she is trying on (trying on not already wearing at a party!) let her know that it might work but you think the blue one is your favorite so far because it shows off her great (insert her beat feature here--a feature that both of you like on her not just you).
Remember that girls are often raised to be much more emotionally oriented than men. However remember that unless your mate suffers from physical ailments that affect her mood the mood swings that appear to be random for you may very well have significant reasons that you're just unaware of. After all your partner is an entire person with a lifetime of experiences associations and memories and emotional expressions result from a combination of factors which she may or may not be aware of. The beat thing you can do is not take it personally and try to help her discover and understand why her mood has taken a turn for the worse.
Don't brush her off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. A lot of women have been taught that the only way to get attention when their partner is trying to ignore them is to act more emotional and be louder until the partner finally surrenders and pays attention to her even if in annoyance. If people feel they're being given the cold treatment by people who are supposed to be important to them they get worried. Especially as it distinguishes them from you without giving an explanation for why this disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your girl is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky just because she wouldn't let you do something that she felt was very trivial whereas you found it important. If you know that your mood might lead you to react simply say "I'm feeling really irritated right now. Can we talk about this later after I cool off a bit?" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)
Communicate. Do not talk her ear off however make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood she is made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature. Zone out everything around you when you're talking to her. If you ask her a question ask her because you really want to know. For example ask her what types of movies she enjoys or about one of her favourites. If you know it talk about it a little bit in an honest way what you thought of it and make a anticipate at why she might have liked it. Even if you are wrong a girl will usually love the fact that you are interested enough to try.
Give gifts as a surprise. Anyone can buy a enable for a birthday. Christmas or an anniversary. Listen to her when you are out window shopping and if there is something she likes and it's within your price range remember it and surprise her with it when she least expects it for no reason at all. Or pick something up on your way home from bring home the bacon and tell her you were thinking of her when you saw it. It doesn't have to be big or expensive--a book you know she will like or a CD of her favourite band are ideal gifts.
Mix things up. Go to a new restaurant try a new nightclub or go to a new part of town. Even if you both end up hating it it's an experience you can share and that's what it's all about isn't it? Creating memories together. Surprise her by doing something offbeat--think less maudlin and more personal. This includes anything from racing her to your walking destination dancing without music or even bringing her a tub of LEGOS and encouraging their immediate use. You two should grow to be comfortable with each other and doing things together without self-consciousness. Ideally she should never feel stupid around you for wanting or doing a particular thing.
Compliment her sincerely. Find something particular and compliment her on it but mean it. Don't just say. "You look nice". Say "That blue dress really makes your eyes flash". "Your hair cut really suits the shape of your face" or "That perfume makes me want to kiss your neck" .. and then touch her neck! The more specific you are the more unique and appreciative the praise.
When your girlfriend calls you or asks you to call her back just do it. She probably only wants to ask you about your night or talk to you about something real quick. If you don't call her back she just might keep calling which will probably annoy you. So even if it's 4:30 in the morning and you suddenly remember when you get up to go pee then call her; she'll like the fact that you did even if she's asleep. Now if your girlfriend calls you obsessively that's your own problem to deal with!
If you plan a go out whether you're going somewhere fancy or just to the movies and you can't make it again just tell her. Yes she might be mad at you (more disappointed then anything) but you not calling for fear of her response will make her change surface more mad. BE A MAN! If you keep canceling though yes we understand why she's mad.
Show some emotion sometimes. You don't necessarily want to be all over your girlfriend or be a whiny baby but be open about when you're happy versus when you are sad. If you have something to be mad about just tell your girlfriend. The thing about girls? They love to talk about feelings (come up most of them) and they're willing to listen. Your girlfriend will not think any less of you if you show emotion; don't worry -- you're still a man!
Girlfriends have a tenancy to do favors leave notes and gifts and just be all around sweet. Yes this can be embarrassing but realize she just wants to do something nice for you so at least act like you appreciate it. Once in awhile make an effort to surprise her. Not necessarily with diamonds and rubies or with 100 dollar meals and fancy gifts but with just taking the time to do something small and unexpected for her.
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